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Wisdom for Women

1. A first class degree won't make you a first class wife rather your submission and respect will.
2. The woman who respects her husband is the best wife anyone would ever have.
3. Your character and attitude will go a long way in determining if your husband will wish he never Regret getting married to you..
4. To be a great wife, you need more anger management skills than nagging skills.
5. Be a leader at work, or anywhere else but be a companion at home.. It's wisdom!
6. Don't compete with your husband; compliment him.
7. Your strength is in humility and submission, not in strife and contention.
8. Be tender, every man respects a tender woman but firm.
9. Never try to punish your husband by starving him of food or Sex, he maybe forced to get it outside.
10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you are wrong when you are wrong.
11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs you.. For a forgiving wife is better than a vengeful one.
12. Make a decision to be a good wife, you will need it in the long run..
God Bless the Women!.

Source: Nigeria Camera

How to make your marriage work.

Ruminate over these marriage do(s) and don't(s):

*Resolve issues as quickly as possible.

*Do not let anger or resentment fester or carry on till the next day.

*Pray together as often as possible. "The family that pray together, stay together ".

*Eat together with your wife.

*Share the same bed with your wife.

*Don't keep much friend, and be careful with the friends you keep.

*Communicate regularly.

*Live exemplary lives.

*Recognise that your wife is different from you and that you cannot change the essence of who she is – only God can.

*Know that none of you is an angel.

*Always remember your first love.

*Never compare your spouse with any other person.

*Accept her for who she is – strengths, weaknesses and all.

*Discover and utilise her primary love language.

*Tolerate her especially when you don’t understand her.

*Defer to her in areas where she is stronger, smarter or better than you.

*Respect her opinion even though you may disagree sometimes.

*Prioritise her above the children.

*Be open about any concerns you may have over any issue.

*Gauge her mood and choose the right moment to raise important issues

*Extend mercy and grace to her and also forgive always.

*Appeal to God when nothing she does makes sense to you.

*Challenge her to become her best self.

*Talk, listen, wait, negotiate and pray until two of you can agree.

*Give your wife space sometimes because girls will be girls and boys will be boys.

*Meet her needs so that she can meet yours too.

*One of the greatest gifts you can give your children is to love their mother unconditionally. 

*Keep family issues in the family and not expose your family to in-laws and outlaws.

Just have fun and enjoy the journey as much as I can every day

I hope that this has helped you in some way or the other. You can have your marriage as God intended originally.

It's not late, you can make it better. Go, make it happen!

Archaeologists Finally confirm that Queen Sheba die and buried in Nigeria

A site, hidden away in the dense rain forests of south-western Nigeria is believed to be the burial ground of the biblical Queen of Sheba. This burial site is itself located within a large area which is surrounded by the ancient Eredo earthwork and is believed to be the wealthy Queen Sheba’s Lost Kingdom. The small, sleepy village of Oke-Eiri, located on the outskirts of Ijebu Ode, in Ogun State, hosts this burial site of the ancient Queen, and has been the destination of local pilgrims for centuries who come to pay home to the sleeping legend.

The Christian Bible described the queen as a women of immense power, intellect and wisdom, who came to visit King Solomon when she heard of his outstanding wisdom. It was recorded that she came with “a very great caravan of camels, carrying spices, large quantities of gold and precious stones”. It was also stated that “never again where so many spices brought into Israel as those the Queen of Sheba gave to King Solomon”. In Islamic tradition, she is commonly referred to, as Bilkis, Bilqis, Balqis or Balquis by the Arabs, who believe that she came from the city of Sheba, also called Mareb, in Yemen. Historical and archeological studies revealed that there are many links between the Biblical queen and Bilikisu Sungbo of Ijebu land. The Queen of Sheba is said to be associated with ivory, eunuchs and gold. Ivory and gold are known to be very abundant in Nigeria at the time, while eunuchs were present in ancient West African palaces.

A team of British scientists working with Patrick Darling Archaeologist at Bournemouth University.Discovered the remains of an ancient kingdom deep in the Nigerian rainforest.

Each year, thousands of pilgrims come to honour what they believe is the grave of the queen of Sheba. This is a spot bare of vegetation in the Nigerian rainforest where tall trees have become entangled with canopy foliage, festooned with spider’s webs and falling leaves, creating a gloom that inhibits vegetation.

A team of British scientists may have rediscovered the centre of one of Africa’s greatest kingdoms – and the possible burial place of the legendary Queen of Sheba.

The team of British scientists may have rediscovered the centre of one of Africa’s greatest kingdoms – and the possible burial place of the legendary Queen of Sheba.The team from Bournemouth University, working with archaeologist Dr Patrick Darling, have completed a preliminary survey of the left over wall and ditch measuring 70ft high in places and around 100 miles long.

The grave and wall of the legendary Queen of Sheba.

SOURCE: NIGERIACAMERA